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May 5, 2000

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Dave Obuchowski
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Chapin Rose

The new language: Gorespeak






Editorial:

Let them take it back

Much controversy has been stirring of late about whether men should be allowed to march in the annual Take Back the Night march scheduled for this evening. The Take Back the Night rally and march are held to protest violence against women, in addition to other issues of sexism women face each day.

The march is not meant to be "anti-male" but rather to be "pro-female." In an April 10 press release, the organization defined the night's events as an opportunity for women to raise their voices in demand for an end to sexual violence, sexual harassment, domestic violence, racism, poverty, homophobia, denial of reproductive freedom and inadequate access to safe and affordable health care. It is an opportunity for women to celebrate their strength with each other, sans the protection or presence of men.

Only women, transgendered persons and children are welcome at the march for very resolute reasons. It is not an event - it is a statement. While men are welcome at the rally, held on the South Patio of the Union at 7 p.m., they are asked to refrain from joining the march. This does not mean, however, that men are barred from being supportive in other ways. Most certainly, being respectful is a great way to start.

Respect is the reason that the march is taking place. Men who feel that they are entitled to join in do not understand nor appreciate why it has been planned. Attempting to do so is simply taking the position of those that the Take Back the Night march was first formed to protest against. Men, if you feel very strongly about showing your support for women, look into joining an organization such as Men Against Sexual Violence, an organization specifically for men that serves that purpose exactly.

Another way that supportive men and women who are not marching can participate in the spirit of the event is to refrain from comment as marchers pass. If you feel that you need to watch the procession as it goes by, don't make disparaging comments, yell or be disrespectful.

The ultimate display of consideration, of course, would be to recognize and abide by the wishes of the Take Back the Night Collective, and of all who participate in tonight's march.

 
 

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